I am a male man, 35 years old, happily married with two amazing beautiful daughters. I have a bachelor degree in computer science, and in the last 5 years I am an entrepreneur mainly on the internet arena. I mention all this just to say that I am regular man. I would also like to mention that English is not my native language, so I do my best… 🙂
What is there to me and to “Happy Sexuality”?
Well, after 13 years of living with my amazing woman, which I love and desire for very much, I felt the need to learn deeper my sexuality. Accidentally I run across David Deida books (”Wild Nights” and others); I can say it was the beginning of a wonderful journey. I believe that sex is a wonderful thing, and by reading I found out that there are more people who think this way…
I also found out that porno is not necessarily bad industry that exploit women (of course it is exist, but not by the whole industry), I found out that almost everybody masturbate (men & women) all ages, and I also find out that most of us buy and use sex toys, all kind of them. Now let me be clear, it is not like I come from a different planet, I thought that this is the situation this for a long time, but now I am know it. I also found out that openness and investigating can teach me many things that I didn’t know about sex, exactly like it is regarding every other topic out there. We never know what we don’t know…
I feel that sex can cause a physical, emotional and spiritual connection between lovers. Sex is also very trivial (suppose to be) and natural activity for human to do. Yet, there are so many inhibitions around this issue. Most people, either because religious, cultural, plain shame or embarrassment or other reasons don’t talk about their sex life and sexuality (or I don’t mean jokes about it). Sometimes we even don’t talk about sex with our lovers/partners openly enough. I guess most people learn about it from books, magazines, movies and these days from the Internet. Most of the parents find this issue to be embarrassing to talk with their teenagers so we become adults with not real learning about one of the most important things in our lives. I suddenly figured out that I almost never talk about sex with my friends, and we are all open minded, liberal and secular, we talk about our kids, we even talk about money, but we almost never talk about our sex life. Why is this issue a taboo? I find it a little bit understood but weird.
I feel that we (most of the people) don’t fulfill our sexual potential, even if we don’t have a real PROBLEM, I am sure most of us can upgrade our sex life by many degrees.
I feel that open conversation between people – couples, friends, parents and kids, and so on – can make a huge difference. I think that using sex toys, can help us explore our bodies, and can add new adventures to our sex lives, and I also believe that learning, from the right experts and sources can help us increase pleasure very much and decrease guilt in everything we think about, everything believe in and everything we do regarding sex.
I intend to make this site, a place that will help people learn more and more about sex, sexuality, loving relationships and more. I will find the best experts, books, tips, products and I will organize them in a way that will be very simple to anyone to consume this knowledge.
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I also urge you to send me questions, topics, issues that you want to be covered here, so I will be able to bring the best experts on these subjects. You can see how to contact me in the contact me page.
I hope and believe this site will become what I want it to become, and you can help me do it, so it will be a great project for all of us.