Oral sex is a beautiful intimate act between lovers. An act of adoration, love and lust, hunger, pleasure and shear arousal. Largely unappreciated as such.
The most important thing to remember is the beauty of what you are about to devour. I find it so sad how so many women do not appreciate the beauty within the male anatomy, Ladies, this is your personal pleasure wand, that long rigid shaft that slips neatly into your wanting netheregions grazing your tonsils with every thrust or that slightly meatier power shaft that fits snug tight, stretching your sacred place taut filling you whole. The point is being human and all of that we are all made individually and come in many different shapes and sizes. Regardless beauty lives in everything you may just need to look harder and open your mind a little wider.
When devouring your man’s manhood. Just do it with passion, enjoy the act and give it all you have. Obviously there are lots of different scenarios and depending on your situation will be dependent on the type of skills you apply, because yes there are many ways to give pleasure and each time will most likely be different from the last.
I tease in everything I do, yes I know, you may have noticed, because for me the build up is a solid foundation for the ultimate result. To build the suspense with soft delicate licks and fluttering kisses along his hot hard shaft, to circle the tip with the end of your tongue, to slowly find THAT spot hidden just underneath his helmet… well that is for starters but in many cases a whole lot of the little things have a bigger impact and as you enchant your lover with your lips and warm moist tongue he knows how much you adore him and his manhood right there in that moment.
There are ways to give pleasure that suit you both, communication is usually a good start, yes I agree how do you tell your woman how you want to be taken and teased, how you want to feel how you roll along her tongue and sit against the roof of her mouth, but you can and you must because there is nothing worse than not enjoying such an act of passion just because you are all tongue-tied. Come on people you have your lips around your lovers cock for god sakes of course you are past the stage of ’I might offend if I suggest’
Talking about what tickles your fancy with your lover is an important conversation to have and you can just groan or moan a little louder at the right time, us women are not stupid, we get it. In most cases you have been together a while and for everything to be tickity boo communication is a must. You both want the best for everything together so a little ‘Mmmm yes baby just there, oh yes just there’ would not go amiss.
When you are younger and you wonder what being a grown up is like sucking a male penis is not really something you give brain room so granted when you are a teenager on your knees faced with this rather strange-looking male part which is quickly thrust between your lips then yes it is a slight shock, but only momentarily because then you realize you enjoyed it and well if this is what being grown up is all about…then. So when you enjoy something you need to do it more often.
Practice makes perfect. Age and body confidence within yourself helps heaps too. Just don’t rule it out. If it isn’t your thing just nuzzle and lap and lick, there are lots of other beautiful surrounding areas to enjoy too, try sucking fingers, yours or his get him so ready that you don’t need to spend much time buried within his groin and his shaft rooted down the back of your throat, there are no life rules stating you need to take him whole or you need to swallow or spit or share or whatever, you make the rules for your own life.
So open your mind a little wider and try to appreciate his beauty and go wrap you lips around his manhood, flick your tongue along his length, lick his helmet and just see what happens. Let’s be honest feeling rejected is not a nice way to feel. Don’t hurt his feelings by pulling your nose up at his pleasure wand.
Watch this youtube video from Cosmopolitan for more great tips: