The sexy massage is a fantastic way to open up and explore each other. It helps relieve stress and helps us be a tad less inhibitive. I have provided all the tools you need to give your partner a great massage and create a seductive mood!
Create the mood. Turn on some soft music, light a few candles, and have everything you need ready at bedside. Do all of this while your significant other is busy doing other things or just relaxing for that matter. Pour a glass of wine and escort them into the bedroom.
Allow them to get comfortable, the less clothing the better. This goes for yourself as well. (Maybe throw on one of those little sexy lingerie pieces you just bought!) Or for you guys, a pair of boxers will do just fine 🙂
Start your massage. You want to start off by not being pushy, don’t expect anything in return; they will sense that your not doing this for them. Remember, you’re there to make them feel good with the hopes of turning around their mood. I’m not going to lie to you; this doesn’t mean it will always work in your favor of course.
One of two things is going to happen, either they get completely turned on by how romantic and thoughtful you can be, OR your massage puts them to sleep! I mean let’s be real, we’re not going to get it each and every single time we want it, but we can still be a good sport about it. After all, even if you don’t get it on afterwards, they will hopefully be willing to give you one some other night…
I can attest that 8 out of 10 times they will be so turned on that they will gladly give into your charms and be ready to return the favor (sexually that is). (If they don’t, hmm, maybe we should talk?)