For men, masturbation has long been acceptable – or at least more acceptable than it has been for women. But that doesn’t mean that every man has taken the time to really explore his masturbation options. Often, men will get in a rut where masturbation is just the means to an end – he’s horny and wants release – so he does the same ol’ trick and he’s off in under 5 minutes.
There’s more to masturbation, though, and you can really get more enjoyment out of it if you take the time to try new things and explore new territories. Try the following tips to get more out of your masturbation sessions:
1. Grab some ice
Before you begin masturbating, get a bowl of ice and add a bit of cold water. Place the bowl beside you where you can easily reach it with the hand you don’t use to wank your willy. Masturbate yourself the way you normally would, but when you’re about to climax, plunge your other hand into the bowl of ice water. The freezing cold water will be slightly confusing for your body, but it will create a more intense orgasm.
2. Stop & go
Put on your favorite porn or grab your favorite magazine and go at it as usual. However, when you’re just about to climax, remove your hand quickly. Put it behind your head or under your back if that helps, but don’t touch your penis until that feeling of climax goes away. Then start back at it. Do this three or four times (or until you just can’t handle it anymore) and when you do let yourself climax, it’s going to be out of this world – trust me on that one. You can also put ice on the head of your penis when you’re just about to climax and it will deliver a different, but just as effective response.
3. Bag O’ vaseline
If you’re tired of using your hand, and too cheap to buy a masturbation sleeve like the Fleshlight or something similar, you can make a do-it-yourself version that works okay. Take a plastic baggy that’s longer than you penis and put some Vaseline inside. Move the Vaseline around so it’s pretty much covering all the side, and place it over your penis. Then put your penis between the mattress and the box spring and begin to pump away. It will feel more like you’re having sex with a real woman than using your hand.
4. Prostate massager
Some men are still too shy to think about prostate play, and honestly – that’s a shame. Using a prostate massager in the anus while masturbating is a sure-fire way to have an explosive orgasm. Plus, many men can have an orgasm solely from the massager without even touching their penis. Definitely time to at least think about trying this one.
5. Male Masturbator
You can use a male masturbator or an artificial vagina like the autoblow 2 or the fleshlight.