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The Fleshlight sex toy is the most advanced, high quality, real feeling male sex toy on the market today. They used to call them pocket pussies or pocket pals and we have all seen the old rubber vaginas and the blowup dolls with simple slit openings and vinyl or rubber insides. In order for it to feel good you had to use a gallon of lube and then, honestly, it didn’t feel like anything special.

The makers of the Fleshlight sex toy set out to design something that looked nice, was durable and most importantly felt real. And they have done just that. Since the days of their first design this company has not rested. Every day they work hard to make it feel better, look better and have more functionality. As they continued to refine their design they have introduced many different variations of the toy.

The Fleshlight sex toy seems so obvious and so simple that it’s hard to wonder why it was only in 1998 that it was developed. Unlike many sex toys that require batteries and motors, this one works like an extension of your hand. The advantage of this is that you are the energy source and it also really feels like you are masturbating, although in a much more pleasurable and stimulating way than just your fist.

You can get yours with several different openings including a vagina, a mouth, a butt or just a slit. What is even cooler is that they have struck deals with several of the world’s most famous porn stars to make personalized sex toys. These girls have had their vaginas, mouths and asses all molded and turned into a custom masturbator. Ever wanted to screw Tera Patrick? Now you can. Want a blowjob from Jenna Haze? Now you can get one. The girls were intimately involved with making their Fleshlights so the entrances look like their naughty bits and once you are inside, it feels like being inside her.

In addition to the pornstar Fleshlights they also have several other different models including one that vibrates and one that looks like an alien from the movie Avatar. You can also use their state of the art website to custom make your own. Choose an opening, choose how you want it to feel inside and how you want it to look outside and you are set for an amazing, pleasure filled experience. The Fleshlight sex toy will blow your mind!

If you’ve recently purchased a Fleshlight sex toy or are thinking about it, here’s what you need to know.

Why you should buy a Fleshlight

Are you still debating about whether you should take the plunge and buy your very own Fleshlight? Here are some reasons why you should consider purchasing one.

  1. It feels amazing – when you put your member inside it you won’t even be able to tell the difference from a real pussy. It feels so good! The material they use is realistic and feels like real silky smooth skin. I like to warm up my Fleshlight by soaking it in a sink filled with warm to hot water. Then it feels really amazing! You can even buy different inserts like the Super Tight, Ribbed, or Wonder Wave etc. for different feelings and sensations.
  2. Completely safe sex – You will never receive or transmit a sexually transmitted disease when you use a Fleshlight, and you’ll never get a chick pregnant with it. This toy is satisfying, safe, and private, unless you want to use it with someone else.
  3. Have sex on your terms – No more waiting until the wife gets home or waiting until she’s in the mood. The Fleshlight will be there to satisfy you whenever and wherever you feel like it. It will fulfill your desires.
  4. Feels like the real thing – You won’t find another male sex toy that is closer to the feeling of intercourse than using this masturbator. They have developed a “Real Feel Super Skin ® sleeve” that was designed to be the most realistic feeling….. and it is! It feels like silky smooth skin. With the Ultra Tight Fleshlight it feels like I’m screwing my first girlfriend, nice and tight.
  5. You can improve your stamina – Whether you’ve been banging chicks for decades or just started off in the game, I bet you could still improve your stamina. See how long you can last with the various inserts. I recommend the Super Tight or Ultra Tight, and then see how long you can last.

So here you go: 5 reasons why you might want to consider buying a Fleshlight.

How to use a fleshlight

how to use a fleshlight

How do you use it? Let me count the ways! Actually, the basic idea behind it is simple. You hold onto it and slide your penis inside it. However, there are a lot of different things that you might try that can switch things up and enhance your experience.

You could go hands free! I’m not talking about Bluetooth, but Fleshlight sells a few different mounts that you can use to hold it in place. These mounts range in styles from the Double Dog Dare which is has two different holes on it that you place your Fleshlights in to a simple slightly angled mount called On a Mission which is used more for missionary style fun. With the Double Dog Dare you can put a mouth in front and a butt or pussy in back and take her both ways while the On a Mission mount lets you get on top and thrust down.

You don’t have to spend money to have a hands free good time with your fake pussy. You can simply slide it between your mattress and box spring on your bed and bang away. Hell, even just clamping it to a chair will work. Trust me, once you go hands free it is a whole new experience.

Another way to have fun with it is to use it in the shower. Jump in the shower, get all wet then go to work. With the showerhead set to the right pressure and aimed at the right places on your body it could be a very wet, wild and pleasurable experience.

Also you can experiment with different lubes. The right lube can make all the difference in the world. Don’t be shy about trying a few different ones out and seeing how they work for you.

Whether you are standing, sitting, lying down or on your knees you will find the Fleshlight easy to use and packed full of pleasure that will bring a smile to your face every time you slide inside it.

Here’s the best way to prepare for a really satisfying solo play:

  1. Fill the sink with warm-hot water
  2. Remove the insert from the casing and let it sit in the sink for 5 minutes
  3. Leave longer for thicker inserts
  4. DO NOT use the microwave or boiling water
  5. Coat the inside with water-based lube only; silicone-based lube will react with the toy and even melt it.

Try these techniques:

  • Use it as an extension of your hand as you’d normally masturbate
  • Place it between the mattress and the bed base for doggie-style thrusting
  • Alternatively, push it down between your couch cushions
  • Try slipping it into a shoe for unusual angles
  • Hold it on a countertop or the side of a couch
  • Try a ‘manage a trois’ with two Fleshlights

Cleaning the Fleshlight

It’s essential that you properly clean it, because the closed environment, warmth and wetness make an ideal bacterial breeding ground.

Run warm water through the Fleshlight after use, and use a cloth and your fingers to do the initial cleaning. After this, use some specially designed adult toy cleaner and sanitizer to leave your Fleshlight ready for its next adventure. Some guys also recommend a light sprinkling of corn starch to dry out the hard to get to places and to keep the inner sleeve soft and supple.

Do Fleshlights feel like real pussy?

Do Fleshlights feel like real pussy

Maybe the question I get asked the most is: do Fleshlights feel like real pussy? The answer is yes! I would actually argue that in some cases it even feels better.

Here is one of the tricks to making a Fleshlight feel like a real pussy or better. You can control the head. You can put the toy under hot water and let it heat up to your desired temperature. If you like it, a little hotter or cooler than normal, no problem, you can make it however you want it. You can’t control the temperature of a real pussy. If you want you can even heat it up to exactly 98.6 degrees so it will be the exact temperature of a normal, real pussy.

Another factor that makes it feel like a real pussy is the custom sleeves. This isn’t just something that was thrown together and meant to look good so they could sell more units. A lot of research went into the sleeves so they could not only mimic the feel of a real pussy, but also provide you with perfect stimulation so every time you use it the feeling is intense and amazing. The custom made Fleshlight sleeves come in seven different varieties. Whether you like a lot of stimulation or less, super tight or normal, bumps or ridges, they have it all.

One other reason that this toy feels like a real pussy (or maybe even better), is the opening. Unlike a lot of sex toys that are simply just a slit, the openings on the Fleshlight are designed not only to look like a real pussy, but feel like one. Where it gets better than the real thing is that you can also order a mouth opening or an anal opening. This way you can get whatever you are in the mood for whenever you want it.

You can get a few different types of openings matched with a few different sleeves and it will not only feel like you are fucking a real pussy, but it will feel like you are fucking different pussies. It is like having a stable of women with pussies designed to your exact standards on call 24/7 just waiting to please you. Imagine having a mouth, an ass and a pussy that all feel different, yet amazing. With the Fleshlight you can have that.

The pleasures and benefits of masturbating with a Fleshlight

The Fleshlight is designed primarily for pleasure but there are other benefits to using it. First, however, let’s talk about pleasure.

The company is not one to just sit around and take good enough as an answer. They are always working hard to improve their design and create new products to expand their line and improve your pleasure. The original Fleshlight can be custom made with your choice of inserts as well as your pick of seven different inner sleeves each of which has an amazing and pleasure filled feel. They also recently released the Vibro. This toy has all the amazing feel of the original toy, only the inner sleeve is created with small pockets that can hold up to three different vibrators which can allow you to add some intense vibration to the fun.

One of the most pleasurable benefits of masturbating with this fake pussy is the custom made Fleshlight Girls toys. These are molded directly from the naughty parts of some of the hottest pornstars in the world. They offer an exact replica look and custom inner sleeves that will have you feeling just like you are nailing your favorite pornstar.

When it comes to other benefits, there a few others well worth mentioning. First up is the Stamina Training Unit. This toy is designed to feel so amazing that it will blow you mind. This toy will teach you to focus your mind and hold out a little longer. They also offer a special DVD that goes along with it and features some of the tricks of the trade that pornstars use to hold out in any situation. This toy will help you turn into a world class lover. Other benefits are that it is easy to clean, can be held under hot water so that it can be warmed up and more lifelike and … well… it doesn’t want to cuddle afterwards.

There are so many benefits to using a Fleshlight that the best I can say is just check it out and see for yourself. There is a reason it is the best-selling male sex toy in the world. Millions of guys can’t be wrong.

The Fleshlight Sleeves

The Fleshlight Sleeves

Perhaps the greatest feature of the Fleshlight is the variety of sleeves you can buy. Each toy can be custom made right on their website so that you get exactly the type of experience you are looking for.

One of the main components of the Fleshlight is the sleeve or sometimes called the inner sleeve. This is the part of it you slide your tool into. Currently the company offers several different choices when it comes to the different types of sleeves you can get.

The Original is just that, it is the first sleeve Fleshlight made and it feels good.

The Super Tight sleeve has the same texture as the original, but it is much, much tighter.

From here we move into the textured sleeves the first of which is the Wonder Wave. You could think of the Wonder Wave as the ribbed sleeve only the ribs are large and spaced widely to give you a wave of sensation.

The Speed Bump sleeve is filled with a large number of small bumps each of which are soft and sensual and massages your member as you slide in and out.

The Super Ribbed sleeve is like the Wonder Wave on steroids. This one is ribbed for you pleasure and has many ribs in it that are designed to blow your mind.

Lastly, Fleshlight offers the Vortex sleeve. This design has long rows and ridges in it. Think of a maze that is made out of soft, fleshy material.

There are a few other different sleeves available, but they are only on select, exclusive Fleshlights like the Fleshlight Girls editions. These six sleeves give you plenty of choice and some amazing different options. If you can’t decide which one you want you can always get more than one for different experiences to suit your mood.

The Fleshlight is all about versatility and making you feel good and that exactly what these sleeves do.

About the author

Hi, I’m Joseph O’Connor. I am a twenty-six year old man from Texas, USA. I fell into writing about sex toys when I was looking for a way to both try new things and explore my body… Things progressed rapidly. It turns out there aren’t many (straight) men that can talk about sex the way I do without getting downright ridiculous. I’m always reading more/learning about the human body and sexual response and always looking for ways to improve my sex life (and that of those I come in contact with)

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