Talking frankly about masturbation

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Since the onset of puberty when hair began to sprout out around a guy’s penis and it would grow hard at the most awkward times and without apparent reason it would be in a guy’s best interest to explore what is happening to him. But, in general, the social mores say, “No, this is not a thing to be discussed. It is dark and dirty.” But how can this be? This is a young growing man’s body and its cravings. What is so bad about masturbation?

The clergy and the school master seem to regard the pleasurable act as if a lad was playing with nuclear warheads. What could be sillier than trying to have a young, healthy male try to ignore what is happening in his pants and to make the futile attempt to have that male stop himself from caressing his phallus? And we cannot truly believe that that clergy member and that school master never once touched themselves with the same thrill as every young lad Society needs to stop keeping itself in the dark and most definitely needs to stop punishing young boys from the wholesome experimentation with his own body.

Since boys and men have been masturbating since the beginning of time there is little doubt it will not stop regardless of threats of eternal damnation and extra detention after school. Besides, whose body is it exactly? Surely society and social mores do not possess that particular penis and if it did it could do with it as society should choose.

Instead of censure, a frank discussion about male masturbation should take place to help a young guy overcome shyness about his own body. And once this body shyness has disappeared he will be much better prepared to deal with the emotional work that is needed to become a healthy, happy individual. When all is said and done the censure and ‘dirtiness’ that is portrayed about a boy touching his own penis is not truly about masturbation or sex, but about control of a human’s actions. Time for society to consider a change, don’t’ you think?

About the author

Hi, I’m Joseph O’Connor. I am a twenty-six year old man from Texas, USA. I fell into writing about sex toys when I was looking for a way to both try new things and explore my body… Things progressed rapidly. It turns out there aren’t many (straight) men that can talk about sex the way I do without getting downright ridiculous. I’m always reading more/learning about the human body and sexual response and always looking for ways to improve my sex life (and that of those I come in contact with)

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