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Top 10 Male Sex Toys in 2018

So, you’re looking for the best male sex toys are you? These 10 male masturbators are sure to please:

#1 The Autoblow 2+ FullFullFullFullFull

The Autoblow 2The Autoblow 2+ just might be the best male sex toy on the market, period. I mean let’s be serious, what guy doesn’t want to sit back, relax and get a blowjob whenever he feels like it? Eating dinner? Blowjob. Watching TV? Blowjob. Playing video games? Blowjob. The Autoblow 2+ is fully automatic so you can get a blowjob whenever you want. And because you’re not pumping your hand, it feels way more like the real deal. And you never have to worry about running out of or buying expensive batteries, because this blowjob machine plugs right into the wall! Never run out of juice mid-session again!

And you’ll probably be surprised at just how realistic this male masturbator feels - I know that I was! With a little bit of lube, the silky smooth texture of the sleeve is hard to decipher from the real thing. And the beads? Omg the beads. I had the older Autoblow, and when I saw that this one had an extra row of beads, I was a bit skeptical that it would really make any difference… but I can assure you that it does.

You can also choose out of 3 different sleeve sizes - A,B,C (S,M,L basically) and you can choose whether you want the hole to look like a mouth or a pussy. I have both because variety is the spice of life, right? I also just recently got the Real Doll Sleeve - you gotta check these out! The original sleeves are all one color, and shaped like a mouth or pussy. But the Real Doll sleeves have beautiful color and even more realistic shapes. I can’t describe how realistic they look, you’ll just have to check it out for yourself. The only downside is that the sleeve fits a bit tightly into the Autoblow’s canister, so I’ve experienced some extra wear and tear on the outside of the sleeve, but for me, it’s worth it.

So if you’re going to give the Autoblow 2+ a try, like most male masturbators you’re going to want a good quality, water-based lubricant with it, and toy cleaner! The sleeves are easy to remove and clean, but the toy cleaner will help keep the material in better condition than if you used soap or other cleaners.

#2 Original Pink Lady Fleshlight FullFullFullFullFull

Original Pink Lady FleshlightOf course, no list of the best sex toys for men would be complete without the original Fleshlight - I mean come on… in a world full of women’s sex toys, this was basically the first sex toy made specifically for men. And although male masturbators have come a long way since then, the original still feels great - I mean why fix what ain’t broken, right?

If you’re looking for a basic, feel-good male sex toy, the Fleshlight would be a great choice. It’s cheap, it’s discreet, and it’s pretty easy to clean. The downside? You’ve got to move it yourself. Yeah, yeah, I know how lazy that sounds. But to me, having to move my own arm is the difference between feeling like an absolute real blowjob, or feeling like me jerking off. Don’t get me wrong, it’s an incredibly enhanced version of me jerking off - but just trying to give you a comparison. On the other hand, because I have complete control over the movements, I can easily switch up the pace without worrying about pushing a button.

But be prepared with a good water-based lube! The Fleshlight is made to give a nice snug fit, so you’ll only be able to get it in with some lubrication. Which brings me to what I consider the only downfall of the original Fleshlight… it’s a one-size-fits-all sleeve. Like I said it’s nice and snug, so for any of us average or smaller guys, we’ll be fine! But if you’re really large, you may want to try something else. That being said though, I know some pretty big guys who have tried it and liked it. To each their own I guess.

Oh yeah, although all male masturbators can be used to increase stamina for ‘the real deal’, the Fleshlight sex toy is one of the best for those who are really struggling because it is so basic. Too many bells and whistles, and it will be hard to control your ejaculation. With the Fleshlight you’ve got complete control, which makes it easier to stop mid-stroke if need be. :)

#3 Ashley Labre's Life Sized 17 Pound Pussy With Panties FullFullFullFullFull

Ashley Labre's Life Sized 17 Pound Pussy With PantiesFrom the Fleshlight to this… Gotta love advancements in technology, am I right? If you want a male sex toy that you can actually believe is the real thing - how about a 17-pound realistic pussy and asshole bent over in the doggy position ready for you to take whenever and wherever you feel like? She even wears red lacy panties that she’s just dying for you to get into.

Meet Ashley Labre. Okay, meet Ashley Labre’s pussy and ass. :) This masturbator looks like a very realistic female, ass up. I’ve tried other ones that have a similar shape, but without the heavy weight it just doesn’t feel realistic. 17 pounds is heavy enough that it stays put when I’m pounding away, but it’s also light enough that I can easily move it around in different positions and bring it to different rooms in the house, or even take it away with me for the weekend. I’ve also tried ones that are similar in weight and realism, but they’re like twice the price. For what you get at the price you pay, this one is perfect.

And the best part is, that just like the real thing, the pussy and ass feel totally different. The ass is wayyy tighter. Don’t get me wrong, the pussy is pretty tight too, but just like any good REAL chick, the ass should be much tighter. And on this life sized pussy, they’ve done a great job of not just making each hole different in tightness, they feel completely different down the whole shaft so when you’re banging back and forth between the holes you’ll be able to notice a huge difference - just like the real thing!

Just remember to get a water-based lubricant, and use lots! Like I said, it’s a pretty tight fit. The only downside I can think of is that it’s not exactly discreet to keep in your closet… and there was a fairly strong smell to it when I first took it out of the package. That seems to happen sometimes though, even with the best male sex toys. The smell went away though after washing it down. Some of the pink colouring has come off too, but I personally don’t care. It still feels absolutely amazing and lets me imagine I’m with a real chick.

#4 Supreme Head Exciter Vibrating Knob Gobbler FullFullFullFullFull

Supreme Head Exciter Vibrating Knob GobblerHow would I describe this male masturbator? Like a fully-equipped ultra-fleshlight. The Supreme Head Exciter (the company who sells it refers to it as SHE) may be a smaller, discreet toy than some of the others but it does NOT lack in the pleasure department. That is FOR SURE.

You can insert your cock into SHE up to 3 inches, which is more than deep enough to experience the massaging beads that is inside. It’s got two different speeds, but I usually like to keep mine on low. If I put the speed right up, I don’t get to enjoy the feeling for very long if you catch my drift. But that’s also good for the days when I don’t have much time and just need a quick wank to get the day started on the right foot.

The silky smooth texture of the material inside the sleeve is pretty amazing. With a bit of lube it’s honestly like the dark, wet cave we’re all searching for. And it’s pretty easy to clean as well - but as always, I recommend a toy cleaner. It seems stupid, but when the material is this delicate, you want to treat it right so that it feels that good forever.

The only thing that kind of sucks about SHE, is that like a lot of other battery-powered male sex toys it takes a lot of batteries. I had to buy another set of rechargeable and always keep them powered up. There’s nothing worse than being right about to cum and the batteries die. That’s why they have some male masturbators that actually plug right into the wall, but those are a lot more expensive than this one. So for a fully-automated masturbator at this price, I would highly recommend it.

Personally, I prefer the automatic male strokers because for me there’s something about not having to use my hand that just makes it seem that much more realistic. Like I can just lay back and let SHE go to town. No matter what I’m doing around the house, an orgasm is just one flip of the switch away!

#5 World’s Most Beautiful Vagina Contest Strokers FullFullFullFullHalf

World’s Most Beautiful Vagina Contest StrokersFirst off, hats off to this guy Brian Sloan who created the first ever “Vaginal Beauty Contest”. What a champ! Second, these simulated vaginas are gorgeous. I mean, they were the top three vaginas submitted, voted by people all around the world. And then they took a 3D image of each winner and replicated them using a smooth, life-like material.

These are one of the few non-automatic toys that I absolutely love! You can actually go online and watch a documentary about how they were made so it actually feels like you’re getting to know each of the girls. And *spoiler alert* they are all super sexy. You can’t see their faces, but you can hear their European accents and see their sexy bodies. And you can pound each one of them when you get these strokers.

As for the actual stroker, it’s got one of the best inner sleeves that I’ve seen on a male masturbator. The grooves in these are nice and deep so you can really feel them when you put your cock inside. Some other strokers advertise different feelings inside, but they’re often not prominent enough to actually be able to feel it on my cock. That’s not the case here. Plus, each one is different inside - just like the real girls :) I have to admit though, at first I thought it was a bit weird that they had a clear casing. I wasn’t sure how I’d feel seeing my dick squashed into a sleeve like that. But now that I’ve tried it, I actually love it. There’s something about it that actually really turns me on.

It’s a pretty big toy though, as far as male sex toys go. It’s about 8 inches long and 3 inches wide, so much bigger to handle than the fleshlight or SHE, but the way it just really gets all of you inside, it’s totally worth it! I honestly have only good things to say about these and I fully recommend you get all three - and watch the video! Knowing that they belong to just regular, super sexy girls is such an added turn on.

#6 Penthouse Pet Phoenix Marie Stroker FullFullFullFullEmpty

Penthouse Pet Phoenix Marie StrokerI don’t know about you, but that blonde goddess Phoenix Marie is one of my all-time favorite porn stars out there. I mean seriously… those curves… that face… those curves… Plus, I heard somewhere that she’s actually a fan of World of Warcraft! That is a girl after my own heart if I’ve ever known one.

For years I would dream of the day that I actually got to stick my cock in her. Of course, I never thought it would actually happen, but it did make for a great movie in my mind as I wanked myself off. So when the Phoenix Marie Stroker came on the market, I was so excited I almost blew my lid. (pun intended). I was actually a bit nervous that it was going to look cheap and fake like so many male sex toys, but it’s actually one of the most realistic male masturbators I’ve ever seen. The colors are so realistic, and even the texture of skin looks JUST like I’ve seen it a million times in the movies. I almost came just looking at it.

They say it’s modeled after her to every detail, including the tightness of her pussy, and if that’s the case, it’s no wonder she’s such a star! It feels good guys. Real good. As soon as I got it at home I put on one of her movies, lubed myself up and rammed it in. It almost felt like I was screwing the real thing - watching her on the screen like that while I was deep inside of her.

And, this male masturbator is really simple to clean which definitely scores some points for me! It’s open-ended so the water can get right through making it real easy to clean. Which is good for me, because I use it a lot. There was a slight rubbery smell when I first opened it, but after a good clean it was pretty much gone.

Oh, I forgot to mention that her ass is fully ready for you too. No matter where you want to stick it, Phoenix is ready for you.

#7 The Mocha Strokahhh - I’ll Take Mine Black FullFullFullFullEmpty

The Mocha Strokahhh - I’ll Take Mine BlackWomen come in all shades, so why is it that most male sex toys are so light in colour? If you’re lookin’ for a little more cocoa in your life, the mocha strokahhh is exactly what you’ll want to get.

This male masturbator has a beautiful brown flower for you to slip into. Be sure to lube up first, because this gal is nice and tight! The Mocha Strokahhh is made of PureSkin which is basically the same as the more commonly used CyberSkin. They both feel nice and soft and smooth to the touch. And with that lubricant we talked about you’ve got yourself a beautifully moist cave to dive right into.

Now, this one is NOT automated, but at the price that this male masturbator sells for it really doesn’t matter. There are not many strokers on the market that are of this high quality at that low of a price. The inside of the Strokahhh has strategically placed humps and bumps designed to hit you in exactly all the right spots. And because of the nice soft material, you can use your own hand gripped on the outside to increase or decrease the pressure to make sure you get stroked exactly how you like it.

However, the size of this male sex toy is pretty small, which has pros and cons. Pro? You can basically take it anywhere with you. Throw it in your glove box or gym bag, even your carry-on. And the light weight and small size means you’ll barely notice it. On the other hand, depending on the size of your dick, you may find it a bit TOO tight, or that you can’t get it over enough of you at one time. But regardless, if you’re looking for something that you can travel with, this is your ticket.

Keep in mind that the skin is very delicate, so always use a toy cleaner. And at this price, it’s a great way to add a little variety to your collection of the best male sex toys.

#8 Mangasm See Through Super Pussy FullFullFullFullEmpty

Mangasm See Through Super PussyIf you’re looking for something a bit bigger than the Mocha Strokahhh but still want to be able to throw it in your travel bag or glove compartment so you can always have it on hand (yet another pun intended), then the Mangasm See Through Super Pussy is a great male masturbator for you. Plus, it’s got the added bonus of have a clear handle so that you can see all the action while it’s happening!

Like I said earlier, I was a bit skeptical about that feature but it’s actually something I now know that I really, really like. It actually makes your dick look huge! Which I can’t help but enjoy, of course.

It’s not super long at I think 7 inches, so for any guy that’s a lot bigger than average, just be aware that you’re going to poke through the other side. The feeling is still great, but because you won’t have the head of your cock inside the toy, it’s going to feel more like a really good, super tight and slick hand job than actually pounding in to something. But with the ribbed texture on the inside of the sleeve I can assure you that you’re still going to feel satisfied! And the price is right, fellas! It’s definitely on the cheaper end of the spectrum of the best male sex toys, at about 40 bucks.

Also know that you’re going to want some good water-based lubricant. The toy is pretty tight so without you’re seriously going to hurt yourself. Nobody wants carpet burn on their dick! Oh, and there’s an ass option too. So if going in the backdoor is something that excites you, this is one of the only pocket-sized pussies that actually have both options. Unfortunately, no matter which hole you enter, you still end up in the same sleeve, so although the ass is slightly tighter at the opening, you’re not going to feel anything much different than the pussy opening. So while they idea is cool, if you’re really looking for something that feels you’re pumping two separate holes, this isn’t the male sex toy for you.

#9 Roxy Jezel’s Vibrating Doggy Heaven FullFullFullFullEmpty

Roxy Jezel’s Vibrating Doggy HeavenYet another beautiful porn star is modeled into a sex toy for men. I seriously love this world we’re living in. Have you ever imagined giving it your all to Roxy Jezel? Yeah, welcome to the club. Known for taking it doggie-style, what more would you want from the Roxy male masturbator but a tight little ass looking up at you, begging you to enter?

The textures and colors for the rubber vagina are so realistic> you might actually forget that it’s not actually Roxy laid down on the floor in front of you - especially if you put on one of her movies for more of an all-encompassing experience. Watch her bend over on the screen and then feel her on you too when you enter this replica of her ass. The Vibrating Doggy Heaven is so realistic; it even shows Roxy’s hands pulling her beautiful cheeks apart so you can have an unobstructed entrance to heaven. ;)

One of the unique features of this particular male sex toy is that it also includes a bullet vibrator inside. The product description says she “quivers and shakes like Roxy” but I have to say that this part isn’t really realistic. Not in my experience anyways. The vibrator is a nice touch, and it does add some extra feel-good vibes, this is the one part of the toy that doesn’t feel too real. That being said, we ARE talking about rubber pussy and so I guess we should just go be feel, and feel good it does.

The cleaning process isn’t as easy as some of the other toys, but it’s still doable. Just not something I’d probably want to deal with every single day, so I use her less often than the others, mainly when I’m really in the mood for Roxy Jezel movie and want to play along :)

She’s definitely tight though - you will NOT be disappointed there, so make sure you’ve got a nice water-based lubricant so you can actually get inside and enjoy her for all she’s worth.

#10 Glow In The Dark Stroker FullFullFullFullEmpty

Glow In The Dark StrokerOkay so when I first saw this toy I figured it was going to be crap. Seriously, I thought the glow in the dark aspect was just a cheap marketing trick for a novelty toy that wouldn’t produce much pleasure.

Thankfully, it really surprised me. So much so in fact, that I’ve had to add it to my list of the top 10 sex toys for men. So first of all, let’s conquer the question I had first off - Why does a male masturbator have to glow in the dark? Well, it doesn’t HAVE to at all, but now that I’ve used it I kind of like the fact that it does. It’s quite convenient when you’re ready to have a second round - you can easily find where you’ve lost it in your bed covers or on the floor beside you.

The one downside to the electric green color though is that unless you’re regularly screwing some sort of alien that the rest of us haven’t seen yet, we can’t really say that this male sex toy LOOKS realistic. But the upside to that is, that it does FEEL pretty freakin’ realistic.

There are balls in the shaft almost like marbles I guess that move around when you stroke your cock, and it feels seriously good! Unlike a lot of the other strokers that have strings of beads that surround the entire shaft, these give a more freestyle and natural effect. That’s one of the reasons it ranked so high for me, because it’s different than most of the other ones I’ve tried. The deep grooves inside the shaft are also incredible, and you can really feel it on your cock.

It’s shorter than the mangasm but longer than the mocha strokahhh so you’ve got a nice in-between option if you’re still looking for a pocket pussy that you can keep on hand for whenever that moment strikes. It’s also just a great buy (especially for the price, I think it’s around 35 bucks?) if you want to add a little variety to your collection, of if the others are a little TOO realistic for your tastes.

So there you have it guys, my top 10 list. ENJOY!

Why all men should own male masturbators

Male masturbators are not only useful for single or gay men, everyone can benefit from using these sex toys. If you don’t know your sex toys intimately, how can you use them effectively with your partner? You need to spend some time on your masturbators in order to understand how they work and what they feel like. If you are trying to make a purchase decision and don't know what to choose, your best bet is to get a sales rep to help you better understand the features and differences. You can also get more familiar with the toy by handling them in the store. But there are some key features that you should look out for. Even though we all have our kinky preferences when masturbating, try asking the below questions as a rule of thumb.

Is the masturbator comfortable?

You need a masturbator that is comfortable to hold and maneuver. Both for your penis and your hands. The toy has to be one that you are comfortable playing with. From its size to the type of material that it's made of, ensure you are 100% comfy with your choice.

The common materials used in manufacturing masturbators are silicone and thermoplastic elastomer. Silicone is usually the better choice because it offers a higher quality and feels real; that is why it's more expensive, hypoallergenic and easier to clean. Unlike masturbators made with a thermoplastic elastomer material. TPE is soft, but not very comfy. It is a cheaper and more economical option, and sometimes hypoallergenic.

Does it have the cum sucking action that we all crave?

We all love tight ass and pussy. That is why our choice in male masturbators MUST mimic the cum sucking action of tight orifices. There are two choices to make when choosing a masturbator with this feature. You can choose a straight and tight one that feels like a tight ass, or go for waves and ridges, which feel more like a vagina.

Is the size right for your dick?

You don't want a death grip when you are trying to get your rocks off. Pick a toy that will gently squeeze, but not grip your dick too tight. This is a core feature to look out for because whether it's too loose or too tight, is a major determinant on how much fun you'll have with the toy. You want to ensure that the toy offers a friction method that does not chaff your dick.

Does it massage your dick like a vagina?

This is the main reason of using a masturbator. The constant steady massage is what produces a good orgasm. You may want to check if the toy you choose massages, vibrates or pulses. If you are a massage type-dude, then vibrations and pulses might not get you there.

How to clean and play safely with your male masturbator?

You may not want to hear this rant about masturbator safety and hygiene, but that won't stop me.

When you buy a sex toy, one of the things you need to learn is that it's not self-cleansing like a vagina; even vaginas require a wash. For your safety and hygiene, there are basic tenets to keeping your masturbator clean. Remember that inferior materials can cause allergic reactions. So you need to do your best to keep it clean and bacteria-free before and after use.

Silicone is the preferred choice for safety and hygienic reasons because they are free of phthalate. Most sex toys are produced with phthalates, which is categorized as chemical rubber softeners that can cause all kinds of illnesses.

No matter the type of toy you own, a discreet masturbator, a pocket pussy or a hand-sized stroker, cleaning it right will provide you with years of pleasure. To clean your toy, the first thing is to ensure that you remove all vibrating parts or make sure the water won't get near these parts. Secondly, place the toy under a hot tap, ensuring the hot water gets into all ridges, lumps or bumps. Lastly, using a clean dry cloth, pat it down and dry all external and internal parts that you can reach. Let it dry with natural air, DO NOT use a hand dryer.

Where can I buy a male masturbator discretely?

Over the past few years, a lot of sex toys have been made available for men. Some, like the Fleshlight, have an unbelievable status quo that places them in the classes of the rabbit vibrator for the ladies. Others, like the Utensil Race products, have more of a cult following that makes it a bestselling product every time. So getting a collection that includes suction cups, fleshlights, penis pumps, masturbation cups, pocket pussies and stroker beads can be achieved by knowing where to shop.

To help you sort the wheat from the chaff, you have to first decide what type of male masturbator you want to buy. There are so many categories ranging from masturbator sleeves, pussy strokers, head teasers, sucking lips and much more. Knowing what you want is the first decision to make. After making the decision on what to buy, then you can start your hunt.

Buy male masturbators online

Buying your sex toy online is the first choice for most men. The research online will take you to different online shops, from the seedy sex shops to the popular brands. Shopping for sex toys online can be a mistake for some people, but for others, it will be the easiest and simplest method of buying what they want.

Before you make this choice, make sure that the items are returnable. Buying online means that you cannot see or touch the masturbator and this can be a problem if you don't like the item when you receive it. This is the core benefit a brick and mortar shop has over online sex stores. But this problem can be resolved if the shop has a simple return policy and is not located at a far flung place like Guangzhou, while you live in Kansas. So if you decide to buy online, make sure you are buying from a reputable seller with a return policy that is reasonable.

Buy male masturbators in shop

In store purchases for a male masturbator is really a better choice if you have a store around your location. The only issue here is variety. Unlike online stores, you only have access to the product line of the sex shop. The upside here is that you can see and feel the product before you buy it. Returns are also a breeze as you can take it back if you change your mind.

What types of lubes are best suited for each type of male masturbator?

Just as dicks have allergies to some types of lubes, the same goes for the lubes you use on your male masturbator. Knowing if your lubricant is sex toy friendly is important, as this could make or break your enjoyment.

Some high-quality male masturbators can run in the range of hundreds of dollars, so you should make sure that your lubricant will not damage your masturbator. Let's take a look at different lubes and how good they are for your masturbator.

  1. Oil Based Lubes These should be eliminated from your sex survivor kit. Apart from your toy, oil based lubes can cover your dick and create a coat friendly for bacteria. No matter the type of material your masturbator is made of, oil based products will leave your toy with a coat of oil and the only way to get them off is to use chemicals that will not be friendly to either your masturbator or your body.
  2. Silicon Based Lubes Silicone based lubricants are fine on toys made of harder materials, like hard ceramic, plastic, steel, aluminum, wood, granite or marble. They are sex toy friendly and will wash off easy with warm water and soap. But silicone lubes should be kept away from masturbators made with silicone. Using silicone lubes on silicone toys will create a silicone coating that solidifies on the toy and this will eventually melt, leaving you with a masturbator that feels like melted plastic. This is the same reason why silicon toys should be packed away properly and not piled together in a drawer.
  3. Water Based Lubes This is the best choice for male masturbators. All water based lubes are great for sex toys of all materials. It may not last very long during use, but all it needs is a little water to reactivate the wetness.

No matter the material your masturbator is made of, water based lubes are the best choice. Washing up is simple too because all you need is some warm water and soap.

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